These last two weeks have been very difficult. Someone really close to me is in trouble. Unfortunately, there is not much I can physically do to help this person. So what I have been doing is something that I found to be important. Pray. Stay Positive. Keep the faith.
I am learning that in times of crisis, you learn not only who your real friends and family are but that problems or situations you have long denied only get magnified in moments of despair. You are given this opportunity to confront the dilemma head on. One must decide do I address this issue or wait for another day (read: avoid it)? I say confront the issue. Even if you are dealing with a crisis. Both can be done. In moments like this, I reflect upon my life and count my blessings. I also pray more and spend time with friends who love me and will be there for me. The old me would lock herself in her mental cave and withdraw from the world. Not anymore. Over time I have learned that if I want to practice a loving ethic I must embrace the community that will support me.
In times of crisis, take the opportunity to confront the predicament with the support of your family and friends. One is never alone!
with courage, vulnerability, and love,
RP
artist credit: drawing by my 8 year old "niece."
